Hitting Below the Belt

When arguing with someone you know very well and have developed a strong bond with and even might love in some way (whether it be friendship or otherwise) it is easy to 'hit below the belt.'

Hitting below the belt is when you say something in an argument that you know will not only really hurt the other person but usually has nothing to do with the initial argument.

While most people believe hitting below the belt is always a bad thing I believe it is sometimes necessary.

On Bad Girl's Club Season 5 Brandi and Danielle got into an argument regarding throwing things in the house. Danielle said "I'm not a stripper at least I don't take my clothes off for money bitch." When saying this Danielle was low blowing Brandi and calling her out for being stripper. So Brandi retaliated by saying "I'm not a heroine addict hoe." Because Danielle struggled with a heroine addiction. While what Brandi said might have affected Danielle in a more intense way, it doesn't mean what Danielle said was any less hurtful. If you can't take a low blow you shouldn't throw one.

A real life example is when I was in high school and I was best friends with a girl who turned on me for some reason that I still don't know we would get into little spits and spats on a daily basis. But one day in class we got back quiz results that we both failed and the professor, who was so hot, said what did you guys do cheat off each other? And the girl said "don't compare me to that slut" so I said "Please if I was going to be compared to anyone it wouldn't be a fat Mexican whose own parents didn't love her." She was adopted so it really struck a nerve with her and she left the class crying. I only attack when I feel threatened. I'm a pit bull, most girls are just kittens. Kittens are loud and they do that little scratching thing but I can kill you in a heart beat and walk away with no remorse.

Lesson: if you know your a pussy don't try and play with the big boys